If I Had More Time

On the days I don’t go to the gym, I realize how much longer my days used to be. I’m so glad I’m a gym rat, but I miss those couple of hours of time I once had.

Here’s what I would do with a bit more time in my day.

1.  Subscribe to and read The Christian Century magazine again.
2.  I’d spend a bit more time cooking dinner.
3.  Spend more time outside, year round.

That’s my short list. As I critique myself, I do believe that I spend too much time online with social media. Perhaps that time could be tightened in order to accomplish the more fundamental, slower, no technology things I have on my list.

What would your short list be?

Sex and Marriage : An Expert

Esther Perel is a renown Belgian sex therapist with a passion for understanding sexuality and long term, committed relationships.

In her TED talk, Perel speaks of the the difference between love and desire, and the conflict we have as human beings between being safe, secure and needed by a partner, versus the mystery, attraction and freedom that fuels passion.

 It is a perfect message for Valentine’s Day. Enjoy.

http://embed.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship.html

Losing Our Religion: The Growth Of The ‘Nones’ : NPR

“…and so I think the single most important reason for the rise of the Unknowns is that combination of the younger people moving to the left on social issues and the most visible religious leaders moving to the right on that same issue.”

Great intro into the new series on NPR on the growing numbers of people with “no religious affiliation”

Losing Our Religion: The Growth Of The ‘Nones’ : The Two-Way : NPR

ProBiotics Could Help Your Brain

I know that eating helpful gut bacteria (acidophilus, for example, found in active yogurt cultures) helps our digestion work at its best, and can improve our immune function, but little did I know that scientists are studying the effect of healthy gut bacteria on emotional resilience and mood. It turns out that good gut bacteria seem to work with the function of the Vagas Nerve, the nerve that links the brain to the digestive tract, to stimulate positive emotional function. (Check out a brief intro to this amazing nervous system giant here: Vagas Nerve.) 

In mice, this connection made mice more resilient in the face of stress and able to persist in difficult circumstances far beyond their “normal” peers. There is more than some suggestion that human emotions and mental health could be lifted by additions of pro-biotics into the daily diet. Jamie Lee Curtis (Activia!) may be absolutely right: adding yogurt or other pro-biotic supplements can make you a happier, healthier person overall.

If you struggle with mood, energy, and lethargy, it may be worth your while to give daily yogurt or a pro-biotic supplement a try.

If you’d like to hear more about this research, listen to this episode of the science radio program, RadioLab,  entitled, “Guts.”  (The research about the mice is around the halfway mark if you’d like to cut to the chase.) The whole program is amazing.

  http://www.radiolab.org/widgets/ondemand_player/#file=%2Faudio%2Fxspf%2F197112%2F;containerClass=radiolab

For some interfaith families, the holidays are a juggling act | Minnesota Public Radio News

MPR reporter Eliz. Dunbar gave me a call a couple of weeks back, and asked me to contribute to her story on inter-faith families and the holidays. Glad to help!

For some interfaith families, the holidays are a juggling act | Minnesota Public Radio News